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I am not submissive.
[B]Please do not address me with pet names or honorific titles.[/B] This is one of my biggest pet peeves and it makes me uncomfortable.
I'm atypical - you know, as far as snarky, geeky, and nerdy fangirls can be. There are very few things I like more than books, pretty music, bad puns, and good food. I can ramble incessantly on the subjects of Star Wars, weird novels, the Tolkien universe, or the series of Mass Effect games. I love watching documentaries and learning new and/or useless facts.
The kink main interests that I'm exploring right now are light bondage play, impact play (spanking, flogging, paddling, etc.), choking and light breathplay, and the implementation of power dynamics. I've also always loved oral and anal sex. Anal is probably my favorite "kink," if you count it as a kink. Currently, I'm primarily looking for someone that enjoys pegging and/or strap-on play.
I prefer to be dominant when it comes to sex, as I am generally dominant in life. However, I do have a submissive side that comes out at times for the right person. (Right now, "the right person" solely consists of my primary partner. I am not looking for another dominant partner, as I discuss below.)
I am not interested in any type of supremacy or the idea that a dominant is in any way superior to their submissive, even in play. That's not how I approach kink or power dynamics. I view my partners as human beings first and foremost, as my equals.
My age limit is absolute. Please don't attempt to wiggle your way around it or make excuses as to why you are the exception.
[B]I play with safe words.[/B]
My preferred method is the stop light system (green for go, yellow for slow down, red for stop) but this can be easily negotiated. If you have a problem with the use of safe words, please move along.
[B]My Limits[/B]
Humiliation, cuckolding; financial domination; chastity; fisting; the TOU violations (Scat, , animals); watersports; permanent damage; any type of supremacy; stupidity and ignorance
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My Ideal Person:
I am sapiosexual, which means I find intelligence sexy. (I am not attracted to a certain type of intelligence - just intelligence in general.) While an attractive physical exterior is nice, that is not what attracts me. I am much more intrigued by personality. Although, I do have a weakness for beards, piercings, and tattoos.
I'm currently in an open/poly relationship with a lovely man but am now seeking a new partner or partners, either local (I will provide you with my general location upon request) or long-distance/online. Gender does not play a factor in my choosing a partner.
I am especially looking for partners that are submissive in the bedroom, although I'm not typically attracted to those that are extremely submissive in everyday life. I would also prefer those that are in the age bracket of 20 to 38. (Apparently I need to state this again, but yes, my this age limit is absolute.)
First and foremost, I must get along with someone as a friend and as a person before I invite them into my sex life. If you are looking for a quick fuck or a one-night stand or have a problem with polyamory, I'm not your gal. I would prefer that any new partners to have at least some interest and experience in the kinky side of life.
I am not interested in becoming involved with couples.
Any new partner would not necessarily have to be involved with my boyfriend - the relationship would only be with me - but it would be nice to have someone to play with together. (Keep in mind, however, that my boyfriend is heterosexual. He is open to possible sexual activity involving other men, but he isn't necessarily attracted to them.)
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